How to Make Your Girlfriend Obsessed With You A

Women are sooo complicated……!

It’s easier to understand God than to understand women…! 

Only God knows what women want…! 

Chances are you’ve said or at least heard all of these sentences, maybe more of these. While it’s nearly correct that women, in general, are not easy to understand. But tell me something, why would someone need to understand all the women? A man needs just one loving companion to be happy. Since you’re here, I take it that you have that companion. But you’re kind of afraid that you’re going to lose her. That is why you want to know how to make your girlfriend obsessed with you.   

How to Make Your Girlfriend Obsessed With You A

The Simple Things We Don’t Pay Attention To

The Simple Things We Don’t Pay Attention To


When it comes to making your girlfriend obsessed with you, there is no shortcut or rocket science. To make her obsessed with you, you need to understand her first. You need to pay attention to every little detail here. Unlike as men, women care more about the details. For the most part, their happiness doesn’t rely on big things. It depends on a lot of small things that we sometimes don’t even realize. 

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 If you’re new to this, you might be surprised to see the little things women care so much about. Might you even say to yourself, “This counts too? I have never even thought about this!” Well, guess what? You have to if you want to hold on to your girl tight if you love her and never want to let her go. And if you’re going to make her obsessed with you, you have to pay attention to her and follow 10 tips that I got from research and experiences of mine. 

How to Make Your Girlfriend Obsessed With You -10 Simple Tricks


1.Show Your Love For Her

Show Your Love For Her


Just like I said earlier, unlike us men, women care a lot about the details. Only saying “I love you” every now and then isn’t really enough. You have to show her how much you love her. For instance, you used to do a lot of things for her. Like as; buying her flowers or chocolate, writing her notes, taking her on adventures, or maybe something else.

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And you did those to impress her before she became your girlfriend, right? I’m not saying repeat all those things all over again. But try to take some time for her. And do some of those things or maybe something new for her and even with her. That way, she’ll know that you still adore her just as much as before.

2.Keep In Touch Daily Activities


A lot of relationships become dull after a while. Both grow bored with each other. Mostly it’s because they’re not curious about each other like the first time they met. They stop talking to each other slowly. Make sure you ask her about her day.

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Listen to her with full attention when she shares anything about her day, what she did, where she went. Tell her how your day was, possibly with every little detail that might cheer her up. Generally women are likely to be more talkative than men. They love it when someone listens to her with full attention. And if that someone is you, then trust me she’ll not want to lose you.

3.Give Her Special Compliments


When she buys a new pair of shoes or a new dress, she wants you to notice that. If you see something new about her appearance, then make sure you compliment her. And don’t just say ‘You look pretty.’ Try to elaborate that compliment. Tell her what exactly is making her look pretty. Tell her how you feel about it. 

4.Make Sure She Can Count On You

Make Sure She Can Count On You


Of course, your girlfriend is an independent woman. But we all need someone we can count on in our bad times. Check up on her every once in a while. See if she’s going through a difficult time at work.

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Offer to help her before she asks you. Show her your support on what she’s doing. When she achieves something, be proud of her. This way, she’ll trust you even more and count on you. 

5.Always be Kind And Gentle

Always be Kind And Gentle

Anger is never a solution to anything. Everyone makes mistakes. When she makes a mistake, be gentle with her. You need her to believe that you’re partners. When one partner makes a mistake, both of them make it right together. 

6.Respect Her

Respect Her


Respect for each other takes the relationship to a much higher level. Your girlfriend loves you for the personality you’ve shown when you met her. You respected her. And you should continue doing so. Being close doesn’t mean you can’t respect each other. Give her some space for herself, her family, and friends. Be polite and friendly to her friends and family. Respect her privacy. 

7.Be A  jealous Boyfriend But Never A Suspecting One


The right amount of jealousy always spices up the relationship. But too much jealousy or resentment makes you a suspicious boyfriend. You don’t want to be that kind of boyfriend. If you don’t like something, then come clean about it with her. But never do anything out of suspicion. If your girl thinks you don’t trust her anymore, then she’ll never be comfortable with you.

8.Enjoy Every Single Activity Together Not Alone

Enjoy Every Single Activity Together Not Alone


Whatever you do together from cooking to sex, make sure she’s satisfied and enjoy as much as you’re doing. A relationship is not all about sex, and sex is not all about orgasms. Don’t be a traditional man. Ask her if she’s satisfied. Make an environment where she can freely express her needs. Do whatever it needs to make her happy. If you don’t show any care about her pleasure, then she’s likely to feel like ending the relationship.

9.Make Her Feel Comfortable And Enjoyable With You


Being able to make your girlfriend laugh is a strong point for you. Make sure when she’s with you, she feels happy and peaceful. At the end of the day we all want to come to our partners. Because it’s where we feel comfortable, calm, and be ourselves. 

10.Make Her Feel Special

Make Her Feel Special

Flirt with her as you used to when you first met her. Make romantic gestures every now and then. Sometimes take her out to romantic dinners. Cook dinner for her sometimes. Do something that she loves a lot but doesn’t expect you to do.  

If you have read this far, it means you really love your girlfriend. And you don’t want her to leave you. That’s why you want to make her obsessed with you. That’s awesome. Since you really love her, it won’t be hard for you to follow these tips.

Maybe there’s some other simple but effective activity you applied and got success, then feel free to share with us. Enjoy your time with beloved one, erase all the sad or bad memories, celebrate every single second you have right now.

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